Someone who does
marriage at a young age will have many discrimination for their self that cause
destruction system of his/her education. We have to know that education is very
important thing to achieve a decent life in the future of someone and they
still haven’t known it well. Many couples still say that they want to marriage
as soon as possible they can, even though they are still studying. It becomes a
natural thing that is felt when the desire to marry is really passionate. They will think
that the sooner the better. However, education has been really isolated by
young people. They prefer get married to get education. Some people do claim that getting married at a young age is good idea. Yet
that’s wrong, building a family is not easy and simple thing. It needs long and
mature process. Obviously it will cause a negative impact for them as like
preventing the education and learning process to a higher level, feeling difficult
to explore their talents and abilities, and having a low mindset.
Early marriage is
a factor of inhibiting the education and learning process. Getting married at a
young age after high school has become a tradition in the lives of villagers
and their thinking don’t follow the development of the modern era. A person who
married while is still studying, certainly his/her desire to continue his/her
school or take a higher education will not be realized. This can happen because
the motivation to learn has lost. Also They have many tasks to do after
marriage as like caring for children and family. Besides, At least you should
make your parents proud by completing your education first. If you do it first,
your parents will be really proud because you have succeed to achieve an incredible
level. Thus, it will be better if you decide to marry after completing all the
responsibilities to yourself and your parents. In brief, you do not have to
inhibit the process of education and learning by marrying early.
In addition, the
couples who marrying early can not explore their talents and abilities they
have. They get a decent job hard because of their low diploma. As we know that
our country also needs citizen which has high certificate. At least the people
who have low diploma will become laborers only. Also they will feel difficult
to register to big company and get job which they want. It happens because
their certificate too. Moreover, one of them is from rich family, but the
obligation for education also needs to be done. Assets will not hold out for
long time without good education. For instance, Step by step your life
necessary will be more big than before, especially if you are married and have
children. You have to buy diaper for your child, housewares and something like
that. You can not be totally dependent. The best way is your education as your
provision. If couples have a good education, surely they will not be a
deficient family. They also can still help each other. Indeed, It will happen
after they finish their education well, so they can explore the talents and
abilities, even though they have got married.
People who marry
at a young age have a low mindset. Moreover, an emotional psychological of
person who immature thinking and does early marriage will cause the problems in
his/her family as like violence and divorce. It will really harm for that person.
It can really happen in anywhere. The best way to solve this problem is is
education. You can prepare for all the worst in your life by thinking first through
education. Besides, the woman as a prospective mother have to have great
education because it is very important thing to educate her children later.
Mother is the first teacher for her child later. Parents also influence to
create the character and personality of their children. And the role of parents
also can not be replaced by anyone. This will be realized if we as prospective
parents have a good education to produce a briliant generation. It means that we
can not stop learning, so we don’t have a low mindset for our family later.
I am sure that early
marriage is the underlying factor of the educational process. It is very good when
married after completing a very high education and already have a business or
regular income. Also it is very influential on your future and your family. Your
parents will be proud if your career and your dream have been realized. Thus, we
will know someone who is educated and uneducated in doing problem solving both
in the family and himself. Therefore, we have to think about your marriage
carefully. Marriage and education are equally important. Marriage is not a trivial thing. Married with a good education
will make a better family. Education is a provision to build a happy family
well. In conclusion, you have to complete education first before your marriage
so that you will not disturb your education and learning to a higher level,
unable to explore the talents and abilities it has, and have a low mindset. That's
a strategic way of doing problems with early marriage and education.
By Nadziratun Nafi’ah
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